Bismilla-Hir-Rahman-Nir-Raheem
As-Salaam-u-Alaikum
Before, I start...I would like to make it very clear the following:
1. I am not demanding person but just expressing my wishes;
2. If you like me but do not agree with some things or consider that I am wrong then I will appreciate if you please inform me with respect and wisdom;
3. I am prepare to accept & love some one, who can accept & love me as well;
4. If you got a cute child, I may not only accept him/her rather give him/her love & attention of a father.
5. The essence of my whole profile is "3C"
COMMUNICATION
COMPROMISE
COMMITMENT
6. Distances are no more distances in this era, so relocating option is there for you or me. This should not hold us back.
It would be better if you consider me just like a single man because my son is not staying with me.
I am modern (for my wife and want her to be modern only for me), simple, broad n open minded, educated, good looking, smart, caring, innovative, hardworking, trying to gain piety, flexible, charming, honest, humble, kind, soft heart n matured person. If you love Messenger Muhammad S. A. W and his face then I hope you would love my face as well. I don't smoke n drink. Ive found TV n music dangerous for my EMAAN n HEALTH. Tv, Computers, Cell ph and all the other modern inventions can be use in halal manner and for good reasons.
I am well aware of my responsibilities as a husband and father. Looking for a loving, caring, honest, reliable, attractive (not necessarily v. beautiful and v. fair), charming, sincere, who enjoy to give n take fun, matured life partner.
I seek help of Allah to bless me with nice wife n children. I love babies n children.
I consider MONEY as a NEED not as an OBJECTIVE. It's also great IBADAAT to earn and spend on one's family.
I want a wife who leads me towards Janaah and make my life comfortable in this World.
Besides Islamic books I read lot of other kind of books, etc. National Geographical Society n Popular Science are my favourite magazines. Physics, Computers n Algebra used to be my favourite subjects. I like astronomy and geography as well.
Please don't consider me as a Moulana, Hafiz, Qari or saint, etc.
She must know what marriage is all about and her responsibilities as a Muslim wife and as a Muslim mother.
InshAllah I will give lot of love and every thing with in my capabilities.
I don't claim I'm perfect either I expect my partner to be perfect. In any successful marriage compromise, tolerance, love, friendship, respect, good communication, refraining from family influence/interference, not being materlistic, fulfilling the other partner desires rights n strong commitment are important.
I like that girl who got Hijab/veil/niqab/purda with simplicity n modesty/hiya n on her face, body, voice, sight, hearing and in her heart.
I love nature, I would like to go with my wife to nature reserves like country sides, dam, zoo, parks, etc. This helps me to remind about Allah and help me to think about the everlasting beauties of Jannah.
I like to keep my heart, things n house, neat, clean, pure(paa'k) n tidy. I hope my partner would be same.
I will try my best to keep my wife happy and make her laugh with all the ROMANCE, FRIENDSHIP n LOVE.
Some of the reasons of divorces are:
1)in most of the cases before marriage we like to speak what the other party like to listen;
2) No proper communication;
3) Expectations n assumptions;
4) Parents/Family/Other people interference, etc.
I'm not a boring person at all. I love and enjoy everything in bedroom/home. I will adorn what my wife would like for me n I expect the same. I would love to see, sense n feel my wife perfumes, bangels, eastern/western modern clothing n hair styles AT home.
I would like to have simple wedding. I dont go where movies, music, haraam food serves n intermingling of men n women takes place.
Just through love she can melt me and make her slave. I'm harmless person and very friendly, reliable and trustworthy. I will never abuse my wife physically or/and emotionally.
Who knows, where khair is and I think there is no harm to know each other. If we are alike, we will marry otherwise will search some one else.
I belong from good and respectable family. We are three brothers and two sisters. Parents born in India, Gujarat, Kathore but I born in Karachi. I'm fluent in English n Urdu. Not so good in Gujrati and in Arabic. I'm here in South Africa for more than 10 years.
Before any action we must think: My Allah will be happy or unhappy?
then we should have sincere intention only Allah's pleasure n in last we must follow the way shown by our beloved prophet SAW.
Pls. remember above all are just my wishes. You don't have to be 100% because I myself is not 100%.
JazakAllah for your precious time to read my profile.
Take care
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