My ideal match | Let me make things easy for every one.
I am flexible, can compromise,easy going and not demanding at all.
1. She must communicate, 2. Good looking, 3. Smart, 4. (preferably)observe hijab/niqab, 5. wants to make home, 6. good character, 7. responsible, 8. flexible/loving/caring.loyal, 9. knows or willing to learn the role of wife and mother, 10. who will try to fulfill her husband desires as her husband wishes the same for her, it includes chemistry, fun and play. 11. Religious with open mind, 12. accept her mistakes, make correction happily 13. modern ways with simple life style, 14. Loves her Lord, messenger and her religion. 15. Forgiving (because I also like to forgive) 16. She should have sympathy (Rahaym) for every one, 17. Soft heart without arrogance, pride, selfishness rather appreciate all the bounties of Allah and whatever her husband does for her. She must make sabr via making shukar. This is called content/Qannaat. This noble quality also helps from Haraam earning. 18. Should not be Stoubburn (because it burns..?.joking...): 19. Friendly and romantic 20. Love nature and like to go out with me 21. motivate and incourage me with wisdom 22. Show my mistakes with wisdom and respect 23. make dua for me 24. GSOH 25. She must not impose, regulate, dominant or/and force because I will also won't do it. 26. She must never ever bring out our differences before others and never insult, quarrel, argu or fight before others (I dislike those husband who does all this with their wives but I have observed now a days wives also indulge in the same dispical act) 27. Humble 28. Speak truth 29. Keeps good thought with positive attitude.
I mind not, If you drive a car (or even me (:)), do swiming & gyming (ladies only), enhance your education & career as long as you will give quality time and won't ignore your family.
Now, you should know how flexible & compromising I am. Isn't?
As I have said earlier there is NO HARD N FAST RULE, I am easy going as long as we are not displeasing our Lord or breaking any of his commands.
The most important thing is sincerity, piety, understanding, communication, compromise, willingness to adopt what is right and to abstain from any wrong.
Pls. read my whole profile and read about 3C !
ISN'T SUGAR ALSO TAKES TIME TO DISSOLVE??? | |
Bad habits I could not tolerate | NOT TO COMMUNICATE/DISCUSS HER VIEWS/PROBLEMS/ETC,TO KEEP THINGS UNTIDY,DIRTY AND NOT ON ITS PLACE.INSTEAD OF STANDING WITH ME SHE STAND WITH SOME ONE ELSE (FAMILY/FRIEND/ETC) I mean a wife, who does not take my side and favour.TO TALK OUR MATTERS BEFORE OTHERS. BREAK PROMISES;SHOW IRRESPONSIBILITIES;TAKE HER HUSBAND FOR GRANTED; INSTEAD OF MAKING SHUKAR ALWAYS COMPLAINS;TIME & MONEY WASTING;DECEPTION/LIES | |
My ideal wedding ceremony | Very simple according to rather strictly to Sunnah way.
No Movie, No Bidah, No Munkira't., No Jahaiz (only hiddenly, no show off, preferably in the shape of gold/silver,money to the bride other wise no need of Jahaiz, I am only interested in the pious & good looking bride - No other treasure can be more than it!!!), sufficient maher. | |