Kulloo Naffsin Zayikatul Maut

South Africa   [ Click here for map ]

Johannesburg

Indian/Asian

Gujarati

English
Urdu

PARENTS BACKGROUND FROM (BURMA - RANGOON), (INDIA - GUJRAT - SURAT - KATHORE) & (PAKISTAN - KARACH))

I WAS BORN IN PAKISTSN - KARACHI.

SINCE 1997 LIVING IN SOUTH AFRICA.

BECAUSE OF MY FATHER ILLNESS & THEN DEMISE ON AUG 2008/RAJAB 1429 hijri, I AM SORTING OUT MATTERS IN KARACHI AND HOPE FULLY RETURN BACK TO SOUTH AFRICA IN FEW MONTHS TIME...INSHALLAH.

5'8" (173 cm)

185 lbs (84 kg)

Black

Hazel

Average

I do not wear glasses

I have a long beard

Infinite gratitude and Shukar to Allah for bestowing me lot of naymaats inluding complete and healthy body.

After keeping Sharee Beard for many years, I realize, beared is the most attractive feature for men. (eg: Look at Lion and Lioness, Peacock, Chicken, "fighter" Fish, etc)
I am attractive and good looking but still
there are many to explore, which are a hidden treasure for my wife.

My hair colour is brown black. Beard got some golden and brown hair.

After coming out from swiming pool my hair colour turns to brown, I suppose.

Simple, Perfectionist, Generous, Friendly, Passionate

Qanaat, Shukar, Sabar, Tawazoh, Inkasari, Ahsan, correct believes, humble, friendly, have GSOH, helping others, generous, kind, love, love, justice, nature loving, symphatic, adventourus, creative, intelligent, clever, religious, spritual, organized, sophisticated, neat, clean, tidy, fun loving, patriotic, sincere, trust worthy, honest, speaks truth, good in Haqooq e zojiaat and wazifa e zojiaat, hard working, solution oriented, home maker, resposible, brave, social, thinker, believer, understanding, Arif, do not look at Na-Mahrams

A person ca not be true and perfect Momin untill he/she loves Allah's messenger (SAW) more then his/her parents, him/her self or any thing else.


Obviously no one can be admirable more than Rasool Allah Salal la hoo Alahi Was-Salaam.
But most of us claim this. I wish, this claim enter inside the heart, flourish the soul and produce fountain in shape of good and noble character like Rasool Allah Sal la Hoo Alahe was Salam (May Allah Tallah Save Us from Reea and Munafiqat)

Islam is a means of harmony, peace and justice. Its a code of life.

Its by nature, so easy to adopt and got many visible and invisible benefit. History has prooved it.

This is the duty of every muslim to wish to have the goverment of Allah Talla on the surface of the Earth and on the people/living things of the Earth.

Only then the goverment of Shaytaan and darkness can be vanished.

Islam does not spread by sword rather by good character, clean dealing and Justice etc.

Yes, Sword has been used to removed the obstacles.

There is no force (as mentioned in Quran as well) in Islam, every one need to see in his own heart but yes, once some one has accepted Islam then this is that person duty to admit and execute all the requirements of Islam and Iman under the teaching of Quran and Sunnah.

Very important

I never smoke

I drive a car/motorbike

I have 2 brothers

I have 2 sisters

Will tell you later.....first we should know about each other.

Better in small groups

It Depends

according to my wife wish...insha Allah

No

There is nothing except Islam

I pray more than 5 times a day

I fast in Ramadan

I have performed Hajj

Sunni

Hanafi madhab

My views are solid and are the reflection of :
Quran,
Hadees,
Sahaba,
Akabreen/Ulema-e-Deoband

We believe the way (Tarika) of our (SALAF-E-SUAHILEEN) pious elders who practice on thier knowledge and had had company (Sauhbaat) of thier elders (which step by step goes up untill linked to Rasool Allah SAW).

They never acted on any innovations (bidah), had justice with every one, sacrife thier lives for Islam and muslims.


They were the true examples of RASOOL ALLAH (SAW) & his (companion) Sahab Kiram (RADI ALLAH HU TALA AJMAEEN) lives and were the fountain of Shariyaat and Tariqat)

At present for me the best interest and hobby is to get the wife, settle down and have fun to progress my worldy and life after death.

But I do have great interest in Wild life, nature reserves, fish breeding, etc

We should learn politics from our pious and successfull muslim leaders. Which begin from our Rasool Mohammad (SAW), Khulfa e Rashideen snd so forth.

http://www.tasawwuf.org

http://www.khanqah-e-akhtaria.com

http://www.ask-imam.com

http://www.nazmay.com

http://niqabi-4ever.blogspot.com/

Never

Quran, Hamd, Naat, Nazams,

Quran, Hadish, Islamic books, Novels

Quran

POPULAR SCIENCE, NATIONAL GEOGRAPHIC SOCIETY, COMUTER & AERO SPACE & SCIENCE

I used to watch every thing National Geographic Society was my favourite program.I perhaps only watch few very important programs because I have stoped the poison of TV (TB).

University degree

Full time

Computer

Accounts and Admin

I'm educated and experienced person.
I got a Diploma in Computer Science from NCC (UK). Which is equivalent to BCS part I of London Guild Hall University and credited by many other International Universities.

I do have lot of practical experience in Computer Hardware, Software, Training, Sales, Management, Business, etc.

I have been doing my private business as well.

Average

40-50 hours a week

Very important to me

I am divorced.I just do not want to scrach the past of others rather would emphasis on a person present condition. I expect the same approach towards me from others.If I will like you then accept you as you are and I want you to do the same to me.I never had girl friends sort of things in my life.

NONE & N/A

More than 16 years
Less than 35 years

Very important

Depends on the rest of the person

Let me make things easy for every one.

I am flexible, can compromise,easy going and not demanding at all.


1. She must communicate,
2. Good looking,
3. Smart,
4. (preferably)observe hijab/niqab,
5. wants to make home,
6. good character,
7. responsible,
8. flexible/loving/caring.loyal,
9. knows or willing to learn the role of wife and mother,
10. who will try to fulfill her husband desires as her husband wishes the same for her, it includes chemistry, fun and play.
11. Religious with open mind,
12. accept her mistakes, make correction happily
13. modern ways with simple life style,
14. Loves her Lord, messenger and her religion.
15. Forgiving (because I also like to forgive)
16. She should have sympathy (Rahaym) for every one,
17. Soft heart without arrogance, pride, selfishness rather appreciate all the bounties of Allah and whatever her husband does for her. She must make sabr via making shukar. This is called content/Qannaat. This noble quality also helps from Haraam earning.
18. Should not be Stoubburn (because it burns..?.joking...):
19. Friendly and romantic
20. Love nature and like to go out with me
21. motivate and incourage me with wisdom
22. Show my mistakes with wisdom and respect
23. make dua for me
24. GSOH
25. She must not impose, regulate, dominant or/and force because I will also won't do it.
26. She must never ever bring out our differences before others and never insult, quarrel, argu or fight before others (I dislike those husband who does all this with their wives but I have observed now a days wives also indulge in the same dispical act)
27. Humble
28. Speak truth
29. Keeps good thought with positive attitude.

I mind not, If you drive a car (or even me (:)), do swiming & gyming (ladies only), enhance your education & career as long as you will give quality time and won't ignore your family.


Now, you should know how flexible & compromising I am. Isn't?


As I have said earlier there is NO HARD N FAST RULE, I am easy going as long as we are not displeasing our Lord or breaking any of his commands.


The most important thing is sincerity, piety, understanding, communication, compromise, willingness to adopt what is right and to abstain from any wrong.

Pls. read my whole profile and read about 3C !

ISN'T SUGAR ALSO TAKES TIME TO DISSOLVE???

Every one is welcome & respectable.

No one is worst.

I have learnt to consider own self worst then every one else.

NOT TO COMMUNICATE/DISCUSS HER VIEWS/PROBLEMS/ETC,TO KEEP THINGS UNTIDY,DIRTY AND NOT ON ITS PLACE.INSTEAD OF STANDING WITH ME SHE STAND WITH SOME ONE ELSE (FAMILY/FRIEND/ETC) I mean a wife, who does not take my side and favour.TO TALK OUR MATTERS BEFORE OTHERS. BREAK PROMISES;SHOW IRRESPONSIBILITIES;TAKE HER HUSBAND FOR GRANTED; INSTEAD OF MAKING SHUKAR ALWAYS COMPLAINS;TIME & MONEY WASTING;DECEPTION/LIES

1. Emails;2. Photos;3. Phone;4. Meeting.

As soon as I find someone to marry

Very simple according to rather strictly to Sunnah way.

No Movie, No Bidah, No Munkira't., No Jahaiz (only hiddenly, no show off, preferably in the shape of gold/silver,money to the bride other wise no need of Jahaiz, I am only interested in the pious & good looking bride - No other treasure can be more than it!!!), sufficient maher.

1. Quran and Hadish (theory)2. Quran and Hadish (Practical)3. Science4. Swiming5.Earning Hala6. Respect/Adaabdetails later...

Bismilla-Hir-Rahman-Nir-Raheem

As-Salaam-u-Alaikum

Before, I start...I would like to make it very clear the following:

1. I am not demanding person but just expressing my wishes;

2. If you like me but do not agree with some things or consider that I am wrong then I will appreciate if you please inform me with respect and wisdom;

3. I am prepare to accept & love some one, who can accept & love me as well;

4. If you got a cute child, I may not only accept him/her rather give him/her love & attention of a father.

5. The essence of my whole profile is "3C"

COMMUNICATION
COMPROMISE
COMMITMENT

6. Distances are no more distances in this era, so relocating option is there for you or me. This should not hold us back.

It would be better if you consider me just like a single man because my son is not staying with me.

I am modern (for my wife and want her to be modern only for me), simple, broad n open minded, educated, good looking, smart, caring, innovative, hardworking, trying to gain piety, flexible, charming, honest, humble, kind, soft heart n matured person. If you love Messenger Muhammad S. A. W and his face then I hope you would love my face as well. I don't smoke n drink. Ive found TV n music dangerous for my EMAAN n HEALTH. Tv, Computers, Cell ph and all the other modern inventions can be use in halal manner and for good reasons.
I am well aware of my responsibilities as a husband and father. Looking for a loving, caring, honest, reliable, attractive (not necessarily v. beautiful and v. fair), charming, sincere, who enjoy to give n take fun, matured life partner.

I seek help of Allah to bless me with nice wife n children. I love babies n children.

I consider MONEY as a NEED not as an OBJECTIVE. It's also great IBADAAT to earn and spend on one's family.

I want a wife who leads me towards Janaah and make my life comfortable in this World.

Besides Islamic books I read lot of other kind of books, etc. National Geographical Society n Popular Science are my favourite magazines. Physics, Computers n Algebra used to be my favourite subjects. I like astronomy and geography as well.

Please don't consider me as a Moulana, Hafiz, Qari or saint, etc.

She must know what marriage is all about and her responsibilities as a Muslim wife and as a Muslim mother.

InshAllah I will give lot of love and every thing with in my capabilities.

I don't claim I'm perfect either I expect my partner to be perfect. In any successful marriage compromise, tolerance, love, friendship, respect, good communication, refraining from family influence/interference, not being materlistic, fulfilling the other partner desires rights n strong commitment are important.

I like that girl who got Hijab/veil/niqab/purda with simplicity n modesty/hiya n on her face, body, voice, sight, hearing and in her heart.

I love nature, I would like to go with my wife to nature reserves like country sides, dam, zoo, parks, etc. This helps me to remind about Allah and help me to think about the everlasting beauties of Jannah.

I like to keep my heart, things n house, neat, clean, pure(paa'k) n tidy. I hope my partner would be same.

I will try my best to keep my wife happy and make her laugh with all the ROMANCE, FRIENDSHIP n LOVE.

Some of the reasons of divorces are:
1)in most of the cases before marriage we like to speak what the other party like to listen;
2) No proper communication;
3) Expectations n assumptions;
4) Parents/Family/Other people interference, etc.

I'm not a boring person at all. I love and enjoy everything in bedroom/home. I will adorn what my wife would like for me n I expect the same. I would love to see, sense n feel my wife perfumes, bangels, eastern/western modern clothing n hair styles AT home.

I would like to have simple wedding. I dont go where movies, music, haraam food serves n intermingling of men n women takes place.

Just through love she can melt me and make her slave. I'm harmless person and very friendly, reliable and trustworthy. I will never abuse my wife physically or/and emotionally.

Who knows, where khair is and I think there is no harm to know each other. If we are alike, we will marry otherwise will search some one else.


I belong from good and respectable family. We are three brothers and two sisters. Parents born in India, Gujarat, Kathore but I born in Karachi. I'm fluent in English n Urdu. Not so good in Gujrati and in Arabic. I'm here in South Africa for more than 10 years.

Before any action we must think: My Allah will be happy or unhappy?
then we should have sincere intention only Allah's pleasure n in last we must follow the way shown by our beloved prophet SAW.

Pls. remember above all are just my wishes. You don't have to be 100% because I myself is not 100%.

JazakAllah for your precious time to read my profile.

Take care

Wa Salaam

Allah Talla n your own Heart are the greatest Referrences..,,,Read two Rakaat Istikhara Namaz then ask Allah to show you the right path and ask (pls. dnt read just 4 d sake of reading...dua should be asked fm heart)istikhara dua according to Sunnat.If Allah Talla tells you good about me then "come in my life" other wise say "fee aman nilah".NB: LOT OF PEOPLE DONT EVEN KNOW HOW TO MAKE AND INTERPRETE SUNNAT ISTIKHARADREAM IS NOT ESSENTIALDETAILS LATER