Sabr And Humility Will Bring Us Closer

USA   [ Click here for map ]

USA

USA   [ Click here for map ]

East Coast

Citizen

African American

all over

English

5'5" (165 cm)

135 lbs (61 kg)

Brown

Brown

Toned

I sometimes wear glasses

I always wear hijab when I am outside

Lips and overall body structure.

Ambitious, Generous, Emotional, Moody, Passionate

I am sensitive to others feelings and shy.

Sometimes too serious and overly ambitious. I like to create goals and reach them and sometimes that makes me seem a little too harsh or stubborn. I work hard so tend to think everyone else should too, and I have no sympathy for those who don't. I like to be touched which some may take as being too clingy, but that isn't the case because I like my privacy too. I also like to speak my mind and if I'm angry I don't think about how what I say will make the other person feel.

Nothing the way I am is the Qadr of Allah.

I suck my thumb. LOL

All sisters who continue to strive in the way of Allah.
My role models are my mom, my grandma and my companion.

Prejudices

Somewhat important

I never smoke

I drive a car/motorbike

I have 9 brothers

I have 3 sisters

My mom has 12 children we are very close and had a rough upbringing which contributes to my current strength and attitude. I adore my brothers and they were part of the reason I wanted a house full of sons.

Shy at first

Nothing particular as long as its halal and good tasting.

Hijab outside in the house it's whatever.

Yes

There is nothing except Islam

I pray 5 times a day

I intend to fast in Ramadan

I have not performed Hajj, but intend to perform it

From a small sect

No madhab

Islam sets the guidlines by which I try to live. Islam saved my life.

I'm in college, nursing school I aspire to be a midwife.
I like wrestling and reading with my sons.
I like to hang out with my siblings.
I love to be cuddled and caressed
(husband only)

Sometimes

R&B

Any interesting

All school books and Juz Amma

College

Full time

Health/Medical

Residential Counselor

Average

30-40 hours a week

Somewhat important to me

I was married before. Anything else can be asked directly to me at a sit down.

USA

I want to receive messages from people living in only these countries.

More than 27 years
Less than 41 years

Depends on the rest of the person

Quite important

My ideal match will be between 27 and 40 years old. Very patient and loving towards me and my sons, because you have to show love before you can discipline. Also, someone who is in college, and a home owner, yet still striving for success in deen and life. Someone who lives in the US but later hopes to make Hijra together as a family. I need a lot physical attention I really don't talk much. So I need someone who can communicate physically as well as verbally.

Someone who is arrogant, impatient, and cruel. To provide is your job and to obey is mine we should both do our jobs without bragging or complaining. Someone who chastises the children without first teaching and showing love.

Physical abuse and arrogance

Through emails at first then later my wali.

As soon as I find someone to marry

Simple ceremony with small amount of family and friends. I'm more concerned about after the wedding.

I don't mind if my husband has another wife/wives

In our own place

1 child

To follow the path of the salaf. To always respect and love their mother. To be humble and obedient to their elders.

In a different country

Insha Allah I hope to be married,have another baby, and buy a house in the US. Later complete my degrees and become a midwife and make Hijra with my family.

Married, finished school and deening hard.

I LOVE HARD AND WOULD LIKE THE SAME IN RETURN!

My walis are my brothers I will give contact info later.