If You Are Upon Qur'an And Sunnah, A Warm Hearted Fun Lovable Dude... Please Respond

More than 28 years
Less than 40 years

Depends on the rest of the person

Very important

Someone Firm upon the deen, willing to engage in a fair exchange of learning and teaching from his wife, who takes great measures in his duties and rights upon his family, someone who is able and willing to accept my children and engage them and if need be, raise them like they would raise their own children. Someone who is patient, kind, very loving and affectionate, playful yet serious. My husband should be ambitious, intellectual, be either college educated or in school working toward that goal, and striviing to learn as much as he can about his religion, and have not only the desire, but plans to make hijrah.

a kaffir, a mubtadi', abusive, mean, weak-minded, lazy no ambition, unaffectionate, shows little care for my children and ignores or mistreats them, irreligious, eye wandering, someone who lies and tries to cheat themselves and others.

habits.... i could handle... but i cannot tolerate someone who disrespects and dishonors my muslim family... we are all at different levels, but if you are married to me you are apart of my family and i will not tolerate my husband behaving in a condescending manner toward my family, I also cannot tolerate a man who is unkind toward and not accepting of my two children... yes they have a father who is muslim.. but Allah knows best whose condition would be better to raise these young muslim children in correctly... They are mychildren whom i love dearly and if my husband loves me he must love them also...

if your are interested, contact me first thru the muslimintro.com site, then I will give you my brothers email address, as he does not want his emaill address listed here for phishing reasons.my father (rahimahullah) had his email address on here before and was constantly being subject to phishing emails.

In 18-24 months time

as long as there is no bid'ah involved, i like to celebrate my marriage. a note about the next question...

.....It is a man's right to have more than one wife, and i am afraid of the way i'd handle it, but i know its nothing i can stop nor would i even try to stop him from getting another wife... so do ya thing brotha... just be fair akhee!

I don't mind if my husband has another wife/wives