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Bismillah ar-Rahmani ar-Raheem...

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Two Suitors Seeking to Marry the Same Girl
The Prophet (peace be upon him) disapproved of two persons competing with one another to secure marriage with the same girl. This is because such a situation is likely to develop bitter enmity between two Muslim brothers.

The Prophet said,

"A believer is a brother of a believer. Hence it is not lawful for him to bargain upon the bargain of a brother, nor propose for (the hand of a girl) after the marriage proposal of his brother, until the latter (voluntarily) withdraws the proposal."


So beware of the chatting and carrying on. To this day I am leary about this site and others because I have found that sister s are getting confused by the whole process of marriage. Multiple number of brothers at a time is not cool. It makes me think if I were to take a wife from the internet, how many brothers has she been chatting with? And be it she marries me and isn't 100% satisfied with me then she'll maybe fall into doubt about it. The marriage that is. Indeed it is not a game to be played with. So you have the entire Muslim world at your finger tips and getting you so-called customed internet ordered husband or wife. Scary.

When I sought marriage to my current wife. I had already sat with two families in Morocco prior to her on several occasions. I later then travelled to Morocco and met with her family spoke for about 30 minutes, and the rest is history. We have been married for six years alhamdulilah. No major issues in our marriage. We have spats like any couple but the foundation is for the Sake of Allah, then oursleves, therefore of the things that cause differing aren't serious and deen related. Why make fitnah about things that can be fixed?

So here I am on the internet seeking a number two. Well don't be surprised if my profile is deleted soon. Really too much to think about. The facade of a computer screen, space, distance and many things between two people seeking to come together as a union. A marriage. Insha'Allah I'll leave at that and insha'Allah stop my ranting on cause it may seem contradictary in a sense. Or maybe not? Maybe you feel the same as I do?


Insha'Allah this tool called the internet aid in that which is sought (marriage). May Allah make it fruitful and bless us in goodness

Ameen....