| Are You My Garment? |   |
| | | Age | More than 25 years
Less than 38 years | | How important is physical appearance? | Somewhat important | | How important is intelligence? | Very important | | My ideal match | I'm looking for... A humble, compassionate, romantic,patient, understanding, honest, inspirational,intelligent, domesticated and deeply religious soulmate! One who knows how to truly LOVE, CARE FOR and RESPECT his wife. Someone whose spirit of righteousness is so wonderfully contagious! Quite simply, a TRUE GENTLEMAN,
my best friend, my companion, my everything! A God fearing soul who emulates the Noble Prophet (SAW). In the Noble Quraan Allah (SWT) reminds us that we are garments' for each other and that 'good women are for good men'... so i think that just sums it all up beautifully.
***REVERTS WELCOME***
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*Those who are harsh towards people and have anger management issues need not reply*
| | My worst match | * One who abuses his postion of authority, QAWAMAH, who misunderstands a wifes obedience to him.... the over demanding husband, the types who suffocate and control their wife, denying her a personality...
* Unable to lower his gaze and stares at women and filthy material. Chats aimlessly to non-mahram women.
* Discloses his wife's secrets and that which is personal. Washes his dirty linen in public, i'm sure you know what i mean!
* One who wears tight-fitting, revealing clothes or designer labels!
Sisters are constantly reminded about hijab alhamdulillah and this is a good reminder but brothers please remember you have one too!
* Deals in interest ( Riba).Chasing after that perfect home and car, obsessed with the latest gadgets at the expense of his deen.
* Loud and ill-mannered, nosy, a gossiper. Talks with his mouth full of food, lacks etiquette, doesn't give his seat up for those in need, intentionally forgets his P's & Q's! Simply unrefined!
*Someone ashamed of displaying love and affection towards his wife, so engrossed in his work and friends, makes no time for his wife and family. Unlovable and heartbreaker types need not apply.
Please bear in mind that the role of the husband and wife is to make earning Allah's pleasure easy. So i would like a husband who is a pleasure to live with simply because of his KIND,GENTLE NATURE, he makes my obedience to Allah SWT, VERY EASY!
The opposite of my ideal match. Simply not Allah fearing. | | Bad habits I could not tolerate | Violent, Aggressive, Proud, Power hungry, Control- freak, Smoking, Lies, Infidelity, Dishonesty, Laziness, Poor hygiene, Bad communicator, Stubborn, Selfish, Inconsiderate, Tyrant, Misogynistic... and the types who play mind games, may Allah swt save us sisters from these fakes...ameen. The wolves dressed in sheep's clothing. | | How I would like to pursue a contact made on this website | Email questions to see if we have things in common, exchange pics (if possible) and meet with wali/family. ***Please do not contact me if you are in two-minds about marriage and don't know what you really want. I'm a little disappointed with insincere brothers initiating contact and then doing a disappearing act! Marriage isn't a joke and i'm serious about completing my deen.*** | | I am planning to get married | As soon as I find someone to marry | | My ideal wedding ceremony | Small, peaceful, simple and full of beautiful memories! :) with a walima all in one day!
The blessed nikah is the small inexpensive one inshaAllah thats how i would like it to be for me. Sorry but no Xmas tree BRIDE decos for me and no stages with all that fancy, poxy, tasteless stuff!
( No offence but i'm sure those from the asian sub-continent will know what i mean!) LOL
| | My views on polygyny (a man having more than one wife) | I want to be my husband's only wife | |
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