Are You My Garment?

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Don't believe in it!

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5'5" (165 cm)

Black

Brown

Petite

I wear contact lenses

I always wear hijab when I am outside

With the above- not just outside but anywhere were non-mahrams are present, that includes the home.

All praises are for Allah, The Al-Musawwir, for He adorned us with hijab and the beauty of Eemaan and Nur!

Shy, Emotional, Sensitive, Quiet, Protective

I think others are the best judge of this one!

Thinking too much!

Also, wearing my heart on my sleeve, perhaps trusting and getting hurt. Giving people the benefit of the doubt and discovering they're insincere and simply not worth it. All a learning experience i believe.

Lots of things, I'm just one of Allah's weakest slaves, constantly trying to perfect my character. It's a huge struggle but such is life.

It's Allah's mercy our faults are concealed from others, otherwise if He were to make them known we would be friendless, so All Praises are for The Ar-Raheem.

Prophet Muhammad SAW, and all those he praised and loved...

Also Maryam (AS) The Mother of Eesa (AS). May Allah SWT make us women follow in the footsteps of one of the best and most virtuous woman on earth! Ameen.

My family and friends......

21C...role models.... well there are a few brave and courageous souls out there whose love for humanity and passion for human rights makes me wish i could be more like them......

Those who fight injustice with wisdom....

SubhanAllah......

"Our Lord! give us good in this world and good in the Hereafter and defend us from the torment of the fire!" Qur'an 2:200-202

There's so much goodness in this world, clouded by human aggression, greed, evil and injustice, the list for change is endless.

Disbelief in Allah SWT.....

Women's rights, Children's rights, Poverty, Inequalites, Racism, Abuse etc

Spread peace and love.

Somewhat important

I never smoke

MashaAllah brilliant people! :) Simple, noble, loving and caring, one of my biggest blessings, mashallah!

Shy at first

Asian/ Italian

My khimaar with modest Islamic dress ofcourse!

No

There is nothing except Islam

I pray 5 times a day

I fast in Ramadan

I have not performed Hajj, but intend to perform it

Sunni

Islam is very important to me, we were created to worship Allah SWT alone according to the Sunnah of our beloved Prophet Muhammad SAW. I aim to practice Islam on the understanding of the pious predecessors an acknowledge the healthy differences in Islam. I don't subscribe to any group or 'ism' out there. I dislike the constant labelling amongst Muslims and the debate between various groups. I disapprove of any unauthentic, extreme interpretation of Islam and loathe ill-mannered Muslims who have tarnished our beautiful way of life. Finally, I DO NOT believe in being harsh towards people or labelling them etc. Its a personal struggle and a journey we're embarking upon together so may we strive to be merciful to our fellow travellers! We all have to focus on strengthening our own relationship with Allah SWT and i hope I'm not of the judgmental types. May Allah SWT keep us steadfast, Ameen.

Varied:
reading, poetry, meditation, long walks, natural beauty, DIY, oh and recently have developed a keen interest in complimentary therapies, herabalism, cupping and the likes! Alhamdulillah.

None of it makes sense to me!

Far to much hypocrisy in the world of politics, just believe in enjoining the good and forbidding the evil.

http://www.islamicawakening.com

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-8730519272544183474

http://nahr.wordpress.com/

http://islamictube.net/view_video.php?viewkey=1035732489#

Never

Not really music, but nature's sounds, relaxing sounds like the crashing of washes and so on, doesn't contain any instruments etc.

Ofcourse the Noble Qur'an, Dont be Sad, Bent Rib....to name a few.

From My Sisters' Lips by Na'ima Robert, mashallah fab book and 30 Lessons For Those Who Fast by A'id Al Qarni an excellent read, highly recommended.

Varied: Health, Psychology etc

Documentaries, Islam Channel, Peace TV.

University degree

None- Alhamdulillah. Mashallah, Allah swt has saved me and (my family) from much sin.By the grace of Almighty Allah i have never been the type of girl interested in boys, dating, clubbing and haram socialising during my unislamic days, alhamdulillah. So as you can imagine i dislike that kind of behaviour very much. I'd prefer my husband to be shy around women and that means no free mixing, he must avoid haraam chatting/flirting with non-mahrams, is strict about lowering his gaze, doesn't discuss women's matters, their beauty etc. Of course he can engage in polite, business-like conversation but that's as far as it goes, i have a sense of gheera too!

More than 25 years
Less than 38 years

Somewhat important

Very important

I'm looking for... A humble, compassionate, romantic,patient, understanding, honest, inspirational,intelligent, domesticated and deeply religious soulmate! One who knows how to truly LOVE, CARE FOR and RESPECT his wife. Someone whose spirit of righteousness is so wonderfully contagious! Quite simply, a TRUE GENTLEMAN,
my best friend, my companion, my everything! A God fearing soul who emulates the Noble Prophet (SAW). In the Noble Quraan Allah (SWT) reminds us that we are garments' for each other and that 'good women are for good men'... so i think that just sums it all up beautifully.

***REVERTS WELCOME***

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*Those who are harsh towards people and have anger management issues need not reply*

* One who abuses his postion of authority, QAWAMAH, who misunderstands a wifes obedience to him.... the over demanding husband, the types who suffocate and control their wife, denying her a personality...

* Unable to lower his gaze and stares at women and filthy material. Chats aimlessly to non-mahram women.

* Discloses his wife's secrets and that which is personal. Washes his dirty linen in public, i'm sure you know what i mean!

* One who wears tight-fitting, revealing clothes or designer labels!

Sisters are constantly reminded about hijab alhamdulillah and this is a good reminder but brothers please remember you have one too!

* Deals in interest ( Riba).Chasing after that perfect home and car, obsessed with the latest gadgets at the expense of his deen.

* Loud and ill-mannered, nosy, a gossiper. Talks with his mouth full of food, lacks etiquette, doesn't give his seat up for those in need, intentionally forgets his P's & Q's! Simply unrefined!

*Someone ashamed of displaying love and affection towards his wife, so engrossed in his work and friends, makes no time for his wife and family. Unlovable and heartbreaker types need not apply.

Please bear in mind that the role of the husband and wife is to make earning Allah's pleasure easy. So i would like a husband who is a pleasure to live with simply because of his KIND,GENTLE NATURE, he makes my obedience to Allah SWT, VERY EASY!

The opposite of my ideal match. Simply not Allah fearing.

Violent, Aggressive, Proud, Power hungry, Control- freak, Smoking, Lies, Infidelity, Dishonesty, Laziness, Poor hygiene, Bad communicator, Stubborn, Selfish, Inconsiderate, Tyrant, Misogynistic... and the types who play mind games, may Allah swt save us sisters from these fakes...ameen. The wolves dressed in sheep's clothing.

Email questions to see if we have things in common, exchange pics (if possible) and meet with wali/family. ***Please do not contact me if you are in two-minds about marriage and don't know what you really want. I'm a little disappointed with insincere brothers initiating contact and then doing a disappearing act! Marriage isn't a joke and i'm serious about completing my deen.***

As soon as I find someone to marry

Small, peaceful, simple and full of beautiful memories! :) with a walima all in one day!

The blessed nikah is the small inexpensive one inshaAllah thats how i would like it to be for me. Sorry but no Xmas tree BRIDE decos for me and no stages with all that fancy, poxy, tasteless stuff!
( No offence but i'm sure those from the asian sub-continent will know what i mean!) LOL

I want to be my husband's only wife

In our own place

This beautiful complete deen. Good manners are essential. I want to teach them to be grateful to Allah SWT for His numerous blessings, reminding them that He sees all that we do. I'd want them to love the poor, to feed them, to help them and instill love for humanity in my kids. To teach them to honour themselves, parents and all people. To teach them the essence of hayaa and hijab. The importance of hygiene and chastity. To teach them to respect differences and to be tolerant and non-judgemental. To teach them the value of money and goods. I could go on! Most importantly, i worry about raising them here in the west, especially London,so would definitely need to marry someone who shares the same view and wants to raise our kids somewhere peaceful, non-polluted and decent. May Allah SWT grant us righteous off-spring, ameen.

Allah knows best but would love to study the deen possibly abroad inshaAllah and ofcourse to have found REST and REPOSE- inshaAllah. To love and be loved eternally, Ameen.

Qadr Allah...

InshaAllah happily married perhaps...?

Re: How many children i would like; ultimately Allah swt chooses to bless one with children or to keep us barren and He alone knows best, so i dont like quoting figures. I do believe however, that it's quality and not quantity especially when it comes to children, (and wives!) although i love children dearly and have been told lots of times that i will be a good mother mashallah, allahu 'alam (with all the babysitting i have done!), i really would prefer a small family, as tarbeeyah is very important and with the social climate today... well lets just say its really offputting! Our children may be a test for us and the things we cling to so dearly, are the very things that can lead us to ruin, may Allah swt save us, ameen.

Additionally we will be questioned about everything in our care, parenting is a great responsibility and not something to be taken lightly, so naturally i would want to be the best mother i could be, (raising my children together with a caring and devoted husband and father) so that inshallah Allah swt is pleased with us. Also the more blessings we have the greater our responsibility and accountability, so being content with little is a wonderful trait...But ofcourse its just Man proposing isnt it? We plan and Allah plans and He is the best of planners...

and finally... i dont like the pressure on women to produce football teams! A considerate husband should take his wife's health and wellbeing into account, yes we have been advised by our beloved Prophet SAW to have large families for the benefit of this ummah but to raise them correctly is also a mission, so everything needs to be put into context, contrary to popular male belief we are NOT baby making machines. I find this attitude some men have highly offensive.

So brothers, if you want a successful marriage and a large family then i suggest you ask yourselves if you truly have the qualities of a great shepherd!

Just a simple soul looking to strengthen my emaan with my
hubby! I have a lot of love and care to give to the right man and i'm told by family and friends that i'm a hopeless romantic! Alhamdulillah. I ask Allah SWT for a fun-loving husband who is serious when need be and can enjoy life within the Islamic limits. A husband who can have a good giggle with me now and then, remembering it is sadaqah to smile and a Sunnah to play with your wife, so races and pillow fights it is! :)

I long to be a devoted wife and confidant, the one that you will cherish in this dunya and be welcomed to the gates of Jannah by me, your Hoor al Ayn! Bi idhnillah. I envisage creating that peaceful and noble home, adorned with Mawaddah ta rahma, that you will rush to leave work for, inshallah ta'ala! :)

May Allah swt guide me to you and you to me, ameen!

Additionally, I enjoy travelling, although i dont feel i have seen much. I have a dab at DIY, enjoy calligraphy, basic interior design, and a bit of plumbing, yep i love fixing things (i must warn you, i'm no expert)! i also enjoy sight seeing, walks beside the river,yoga, meditation and spending time with good people. It's hard to describe myself but in a nutshell i am serious about marriage and yearn for true companionship inshaAllah.


And finally, Jazakallah Khayr for patiently reading my rather detailed profile! Any goodness in this profile is from Allah SWT and the mistakes are my own.

Allahummagh firli thanbi kullahu diqqahu wa jillahu wa awwalahoo wa akhirahoo wa 'ala niyyatahoo wa sirrahoo. Oh Allah! Forgive me all my sins, great and small, the first and the last, those that are apparent and those that are hidden (Muslim).

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A woman said to `Aآ’ishah: “When my husband comes home, he becomes like a cat. When he goes out, he becomes like a lion. He does not ask about what might have happened.” [Sahîh al-Bukhârî and Sahîh Muslim]

Ibn Hajar explains her words as follows:

"They might mean that he is very generous and tolerant. He does not make a big fuss about what goes missing of his wealth. If he brings something for the house, he does not enquire about it later on. He does not make an issue of the shortcomings that he might see at home but instead is clement and tolerant".

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Qur'anic Duas:

"Rabbi innee lima anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeerun."

"My Lord! Truly, I am in need of whatever good that You bestow on me!" (Al-Qur'an 28:24)


"Rabbana hablana min azwajena wadhur-re-yatena kur-rata a'eyuniu-waja'lna lilmut-takeena imama."

"Our Lord! Grant unto us wives and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous." (Al-Qur'an 25:74)

AMEEN YA RABBAL 'ALAMEEN!

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