Are U Concerned About The Ummah? Looking For Some1 Who'll Encourage The Good & Pray Tahujjad With Me

Afghanistan
Azerbaijan
Bahrain
Belgium
Bosnia
Canada
Chechnya
Egypt - Cairo
Iraq
Jordan
Kazakhstan
Morocco
Nigeria
Oman
Palestine
Pakistan
Qatar
Saudi Arabia
Syria
Turkey
UK
Uzbekistan
Yemen

More than 18 years
Less than 34 years

Depends on the rest of the person

Quite important

Someone who is is open minded, willing to learn, teach and encourage each other to get closer to Allah., eg. wake me up and pray tahujjad together etc. Should not be inflenced by the society around her, able to think with her own mind. Pleasing to the eye. Race, colour, kids isn't an issue. Arabic would be preferable, I would love to learn it (again). Someone who yearns for the hereafter and is not in love with this life or materialistic. Must practice Islam, or be ready to. Sounds all too serious but then who defines what fun and pleasure is? ps. I may not be as extreme as you think,(it depends what you think extreme is!) but abiding by halal and haram is a must, although we are all human. 18-31, from any country, but must be willing to relocate.
Khimar and Jilbab is a must or should be worn v. soon. I am fairly laid back, and not fussed about many things, but other things will really wind me up, eg. issues regarding halal and haram
A good cook would be nice although i like various types of foods, paki, chinese, italian, fish and chips.
Someone who gives a nice massage would also be a plus!
Education is a plus, but Islam and common sense are much more important.... I have known some academic graduatesin my tome but boy are they 'thickos' when it comes to the real world.. sorry couldnt think of a better word.
Someone who is funny would be good,
likes to laugh.. although not mad... ;),
loving, generous, soft and kind...
someone with sabr,
a smiling face and twinkling eyes ;)

loves kids, is patient with them, DOESNT HIT kids, teaches them with or will teach them with tenderness, love, care, encouragement... dont worry i help you too...
able to get on with my family,
likes going out (occassionally!),
looks after herself (physically)... i am absolutely sorry , but i know there are some lovely people out their who are overisized, or maybe i am undersized ... but i have no desire to be squished or squashed :-o

ok maybe i'm asking for too much but if you are a little bit like this... give me a shout.....

Superficial or shallow girls, with no common sense. Soap or drama addicts. Shopaholics. Cunning or scheming women. non-muslims. 2 faced liars, lacking patience / sabr, hot-tempered, shouters, screamers, dish-smashers, crazy pscho nuts who have escaped from a mental institute!!!! :).... and so on....

i don't want anyone who says - 'accept me for who and what i am and i will not change'
If we believe we don't need to change then(auzobillah) how will we become better people, how
will the situation in the world change?
Its like saying you're already perfect - which none of us are.

Everyone has faults and no one is an angel. So a marriage has to worked at. No one is perfect (except Muhammad(saw), so therefore it means that we must all change something in us, otherwise there is no hope in a marriage, and more importantly no hope in becoming a better person.

Oh, yeh....some advice for people looking - even if you don't pick me... I dont believe in the western idea of soulmate. Their are 6 billion+ people and the west would have us believe that we got to find that 1 in a billion who would be our soulmate - Now that.. is impossible, and a cause for misery, and a lot of unhappy people!!! It makes it easy for people to cheat and have affairs and be miserable because they didn't find the right one and keep thinking what if he / she is still out there.
And finding a soulmate implies that you know what one is - and that's pretty difficult if you havent had 'experiences' before or if you dont have something to compare to.
Anyway the Prophet(s) and many of the Sahaba(r) married more than one, which definitely goes against the idea of a soulmate. Allah(swt) tells us in the Quran that for believing (pious) men there are believing pious women. He(swt) doesnt say anywhere that there is ONLY 1 created perfect match for each person. I hope this eases the 'tension' and frustration that some people feel when trying to find someone. Rather if you undertand what you want, the values and goals you believe in, what you want to achieve, the things that matter to you and the things that dont, and choose someone based on that, and then (after marriage) you will (inshallah) find that he she develops into someone you could call the perfect partner or ideal mate or your love, your sweetheart, your hunney bunney, strawberries and cream, your teddy bear, your cuddly wuddly, or whatever other name you wanna give her / him ..

smoking, back biting, lying, gossipping, someone who doesnt try to make an effort, or lives for this life or themselves, habitually committing haram..

with a net and dart gun... ;)or maybe .... exchange / discuss via email first

As soon as I find someone to marry

simple