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Australia
Brazil
Canada
New Zealand
Pakistan
Puerto Rico
Spain
Syria
Turkey

I want to receive messages from people living in only these countries.

More than 29 years
Less than 40 years

Depends on the rest of the person

Very important

You know what? If we talk about idealism here, it would not be a very realistic approach to look for a spouse. It never works, does it?
There are just certain aspects that I would admire in my potential spouse.
He should be a good Muslim (by this I mean he should find contentment and happiness with what Allah has made halal for him and should stay away from what He has forbidden) He should pray 5 times a day or at least try to. He should read the Quran with its translation and Tafseer and should also consider his responsibility to teach it to his wife and children.

If I were to talk about age specifically, lets see, someone from 29-38 If in his late 30s, it would be best if he appears younger than that.

A non-Pakistani would be great but exceptions can be made on the basis of several aspects which can be discussed later so all are welcome.

Education is a big fat deal for me. I myself have finished a Bachelor degree and am going for a Master so I guess I would want my spouse to have the same (a higher degree would be greatly appreciated though!)
He should be tall and definitely more intelligent than I am.

In my opinion, humbleness is the key to a good personality along with other important features like confidence, politeness, cool and calm temperament, wisdom, thoughtfulness and the most important of all, manners ( I mean every kind of manners; from table manners to keeping good hygiene which also includes Tahaarat; from bedroom manners to how a person should talk) Islam teaches us all of it and it is our duty not to overlook it.

He should avoid something with which his spouse or anyone gets annoyed with. I can give a lot of examples i.e. eating with one's mouth open, burping out loud in public or even when in seclusion, not taking care of personal hygiene etc etc. I could go on forever. Some of you may think this is kiddy stuff and we're past that stage since this is what we teach children from the very beginning, but trust me...I have seen grown ups do all of the above and not do a single thing about it even if someone points it out to them. Sorry if I may have been offensive to anyone here but we really need to educate people.

Someone WITH the following:
1. does or wants to do something which has been prohibited in Islam (this includes a lot of things other than drinking, eating the prohibited and gambling)
2. bad English
3. snores while sleeping ( I have a HUGE problem with it since I am a very very light sleeper) I wish I wasn't!!! Its a pain
4. believes strongly in the four imams and follows only one (i.e. follows only Imam Abu Hanifa)
5. is the same height as me or shorter
6. one who does not have a big enough heart as to appreciate others once in a while
7. one who is insecure and under confident
8. self-centered
9. unkind etc
10. one who suffers from Asthma or other inherent diseases (we should start our lives with only truth)
11. one who is a liar ( I can't stand liars, it is one of the biggest sins)
12. someone who is cunning
13. someone who is not respectful of me and my family (this one is very imp)
14. someone who does not even slightly try to understand his wife and put allegations on her
15. a person who is judgmental and racist and makes fun of everyone (including his wife)

Lying and smoking are the most unbearable. I cannot get married to someone who even occasionally smokes, firslty, since it is unhealthy for the smoker and secondly its more of a slow death process for others who inhale it as a second hand smoke, exhaled by the smoker making many human lives at risk and thirdly because I would want the father of my children to set a very good example for them.Ill mannered people cannot be tolerated as well. I hope I'm not asking too much. These are just the very common traits that every Muslim man and/or woman should possess.

Emails through this site at first or through any other website if this website uploads very slowly. Lets see.

As soon as I find someone to marry

very quiet with just the immediate families of both sides but I would respect my spouse's opinion on this.

I want to be my husband's only wife