Maybe I Am Just The Man You Are Looking For,(but See Personal Statement Too)

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USA

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Al-khobar

Visitor visa

Other

English

English

Born and raised in the US

5'5" (165 cm)

135 lbs (61 kg)

Black

Black

Slender

I always wear glasses

I have a goatee

People say that I have a nice smile. As well, I am neat dresser and that may be my most attractive feature and I am well groomed.

I have a medium brown complexion like Oprah or Will Smith, but just with a lot less money than they have. However, I have been told I was handsome but beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. But surely I do have a lovable personality.

Generous, Cultural, Emotional, Caring, Friendly

Always in a good mood and ususally smiling.

Sometimes, I can get into a bad mood if something I do not like occurs.

I would like to be more consistent in doing things

I sometimes mismanage time. Sometimes I do overspending too. So I should start watching how I spend money.

too many people to mention.

People should be all treated fairly. End the conflicts in the world. Give Saudi women drivers license to drive theri sporty Lexus SUVs.

Somewhat important

I never smoke

I drive a car/motorbike

I have 2 sisters

I have a wonderful family back in the US, who think that I may be slightly crazy for leaving everything and traveling 10,000 miles to KSA. I love my family dearly and I hope that they would become Muslims one day.

Shy at first

Barbecue chicken

Nice beige slacks, button down Nautica shirt, and leather shoes. But I have tried the thobe one day at work too! WOW!

Yes

There is nothing except Islam

I pray more than 5 times a day

I fast in Ramadan

I have performed Hajj

Sunni

One must follow the way of the Prophet, his companions, and those that came after (especially the last two generations)

Reading, traveling, sports, cooking, and shopping.

I am not involved in politics but I do read the newspapers. I hate what is happening in Iraq, Palestine, Afghanistan, etc.

Ar-Raheeq al Makthoun

Arab News and Gulf News

Postgraduate professional training

Full time

Other

Consultant

Saudi Organization

I provide critical information to customers to faciliate their needs.

Above average

20-30 hours a week

Somewhat important to me

I am a very assertive person and tries hard to make things work

Al-Humdulilah her parents raised her to fear Allah and be a good wife and mother,

More than 26 years
Less than 45 years

Depends on the rest of the person

Somewhat important

Country does not matter since good people come from all over the world. However I would like her to:
Speak English
Be between 27-40
A Good Muslimah
Intelligent
Nice looks would not be bad either.
Easy to get along with
Intelligent
Witty
Humorous
...but serious

#1 **** Loud Mouth****
#2 Someone who thinks they are better than everyone.
#3 Ignorant
4# Someone who thinks that are prettier than Beyonce (Joke)

LiarArrogantand did I mention a liar

I would like to exchange e-mails

In the next 6 months

An Islamic wedding ceremony would be fine.

In our own place

2 children

To follow the Quran and Sunnah in and out of my presence. Make duah for me when I die. Get the best education they can, obey their parents, and always do things to please Allah and not others.

In a different country

I want to start some type of consulting business.

Fisrt back in the US to see after my parents. Later in some Muslim country that is not backwards.

I am a convert to Islam trying to be a good Muslim and hoping to strengthen my Iman daily. Of course, I will not jump up and down, bragging about anything. Instead, I leave that up to you to find out about. And for sure, Allah knows who really is the good Muslim regardless what we write about ourselves.

Originally I am from the US, but living in Saudi.

Yes, people have said I am handsome but beauty is in the eye of the beholder but I feel confident people love my personality.

My complexion is brown similar to Oprah or Will Smith (since some people who never been anywhere or know the world we live in, assume all Americans have white skin complexions) so I think I should clarify this point.

People say that I am rather nice, well balanced, easy going, and good to have as a friend.

I am married and looking for a second soul mate and please don't think that is so horrible until you read my philosophy below:


Being in Saudi just a few years, I have witnessed unmarried women who will not accept being a second wife, but their are numerous cases where some sadly agree to the most inappropriate things to satisfy their single status.


A. "Playing around" with men they meet online who are not interested in marrying. (haram isnt it?) And some do it even play around with the drivers as one newspaper reported.

B. Having relationships with their girlfriends (also haram and despicable), but yes it happens.

C. Watching things on TV/Internet that are bad for their Islam. (haram also but women do these things like men do also).

D. Choosing to die single and lonely because they are over age 25 and too old for marriage according to Arab culture

The last time I checked, each of these things were worst than having a lawful relationship as a second wife. In my opinion, I am a good candidate to make a woman happy. And more importantly, Allah knows, being a second wife is better choice than the 4 things we witness.

I ask you by Allah to not look at something that is totally acceptable as something bad because of what has happened to your aunt, sister, etc. when they were a second wife. Relationships sometimes end (even if they were the only wife) and do not blame their divorce on polygamy as some people ignorantly do. To mention even women as the only wife get divorced too. Yes, some people do not work out and that is just a part of life.

Allow me to say, I am open for any questions that any person may have to examine my religious philosophy, personality, etc. I enjoy meeting people and I am rather sociable allowing myself to easily be befriended by good hearted people.

After you pray and decide I will be glad to provide references too.