This Is A Trial For Women, Because, I Am Looking For A Woman Who Would Like To Be A 2nd Wife. I Think, Woman Who Wants To Be Only Wife Is Selfish, Ladies Don’t Mind!

In our own place

More than 9 children

Tawheed, and not associate partners with Allah, put their trust in Him, fear Him, wherever they are, and love Him all times. Make the Quran, their guide. Love the Prophet, more than everyone, and follow his Sunnah. Understand life and death, and not love this world, because this life is limited.

In the same country, but different city

1 - I will marry a good Muslim woman, to love, I will give her rights equally, every thing will be half and half, I will give her to eat and wear, what I myself eat and wear, I will provide shelter, inshaAllah. I am dependable, because I fear Allah as much as I can and I know that we will be questioned for our wrong doings in the Day of Judgment.

There is no reason stated in Quran and Sunnah for a husband to take another wife. Quran taught us that a husband, who wants to marry another wife, should be able to be just (materially) among the wives and that he will not be able to be just (in term of emotional inclination) even if he wishes to.

You will never be able to do perfect justice between wives even if it is your ardent desire, so do not incline too much to one of them (by giving her more of your time and provision) so as to leave the other hanging (i.e. neither divorced nor married). And if you do justice, and do all that is right and fear Allah by keeping away from all that is wrong, then Allah is Ever Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful. (4:129)

2 - We will raise kids on pure Islamic way, together, inshaAllah. I would like to home school my kids and teach them Islam, because I am not satisfied with present education systems.

3 - I will live where; there I can save my self and my family from “FITAN” (evils) inshaAllah.

Narrated Hudhaifa bin Al-Yaman: The people used to ask Allah's Apostle about the good but I used to ask him about the evil lest I should be overtaken by them. So I said, "O Allah's Apostle! We were living in ignorance and in an (extremely) worst atmosphere, then Allah brought to us this good (Islam); will there be any evil after this good?" He said, "Yes." I said, 'Will there be any good after that evil?" He replied, "Yes, but it will be tainted (not pure.)'' I asked, "What will be its taint?" He replied, "(There will be) some people who will guide others not according to my tradition? You will approve of some of their deeds and disapprove of some others." I asked, "Will there be any evil after that good?" He replied, "Yes, (there will be) some people calling at the gates of the (Hell) Fire, and whoever will respond to their call, will be thrown by them into the (Hell) Fire." I said, "O Allah s Apostle! Will you describe them to us?" He said, "They will be from our own people and will speak our language." I said, "What do you order me to do if such a state should take place in my life?" He said, "Stick to the JAMAAH of Muslims and their Imam (Khalifah)." I said, "If there is neither a JAMAAH of Muslims nor an Imam (Khalifah)?" He said, "Then turn away from all those sects even if you were to bite (eat) the roots of a tree till death overtakes you while you are in that state." (Bukhari, Volume 9, Book 88, Hadith Number 206)

Allah knows best.